Tuesday, July 31, 2012

--> iAdvise vs iJudge

as-salam

Senario masyarakat hari ini tak kira di Malaysia atau di celah ceruk dunia mana sekali pun, kalau kita nasihatkan seseorang, jawapan yang kita akan dapat tak lain tak bukan adalah;
iGossip by Rizal
"Kubur masing-masing, buat la hal masing-masing"

"Kau ingat kau baik sangat? Blah la..."

"Sibuk la kau...tengok diri sendiri tu sempurna ke tidak? Baru la nak judge aku"

Bagi aku, bagus bila ada orang nasihtkan kita, tandanya mereka ambil berat...kan kan kan? But when it comes to judging someone - doesn't matter whether it is regarding their ways of dressing, daily routines, topics of conversation and so forth bla bla I have no idea how to put in words. What makes us think someone is judging? What are the differences between these two?

Sometimes I wonder if anything is absolute anymore. Is there still right and wrong? Good and bad? Truth and lies? Or is everything negotiable, left to interpretation, gray? Sometimes we're forced to bend the truth to transform it because we are faced with things that are not of our own making. And sometimes, things simply catch up with us.
Stop Judging Me
All of us are air guitar players! Wuhuuu


Hope you get it...till then, that is how

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38 Gossips/Comments:

Wan Ahmad Izudean Best Blogger Tips said...

there is an art in giving advice. and the way it is delivered as well :D

Rizal Sadiman Best Blogger Tips said...

@Wan Ahmad Izudean Thank you for the opinion..

I know it is delivered nicely but the art?

What kind of art? Tell me more please . . .

Nurul ain Best Blogger Tips said...

betul... then untung sangat kalau ada orang sudi bagi nasihat.. dari situ kita dpt perbaiki diri :)

Rizal Sadiman Best Blogger Tips said...

@Nurul ain Kan ain kan...?

Untung sangat kalau ada kawan2 yg sudi nasihtkn kita

NARUMI ISOZAKI Best Blogger Tips said...

Manusia. Ego dalam menerima nasihat. *diri sendiri tidak terkecuali* Selalu merasakan diri sendiri terbaik. Selalu rasa 'whatever you wanna say or judge, up to you, I know myself well' or 'Only me & God knows'. Answers that you are familiar with right? Padahal kalau nak refleks semula, manusia yang memberi nasihat itu pun adalah mungkin orang tengah Tuhan, utk membetulkan kesilapan kita. =)

ieda Best Blogger Tips said...

ambil setiap teguran sebagai memperbaiki diri .. kena selalu senyum dan tenang menerima ..
insyaallahh ;))

- zuriey - Best Blogger Tips said...

yang takleh terima teguran tu ego sebenarnya taknak mengaku kesalahan sendiri

NIZAM Best Blogger Tips said...

tu la masalahnya. maybe kedua2 pihak perlu give n take. kedua2 perlu ada rasional.

R.T.W Best Blogger Tips said...

I agree with Wan Ahmad. People won't just simply listen to your advice. You must know the art of giving an advice so that the advice hits the spot. Or else it will backfire you and let you down. I was like that. Now I try to learn it slowly through try and error. School of Hardnocks (harsh experience) really taught me something in life.

You will soon get it cuz you have realize it, right? =)

fieda.aziz Best Blogger Tips said...

saye setuju !
nobody perfect in this world..
same2 mnasihati, maka harmoni lah hidup :)
salam ramadhan !

zacky786 Best Blogger Tips said...

waa stuju sgt ngn entry ni :D

budak baek Best Blogger Tips said...

i too think that we should feel honored if someone is sincerely advising us because this kind of people are hard to find.

the most important thing is how we perceive the advice. if we want to constantly have negative thought thinking that they want to judge us, we can never improve ourselves. the key point is to always take things positively.

don't question people's credibility when they are trying to do good things to you. they might not be perfect but their advice can be very useful.

still, those who are advising should not be harsh. try to understand that the person u are advising may be someone who are sensitive and may easily get hurt.

gunalah ayat berbunga sikit kan. puji2 dulu ke. bagi dia tenang hati sikit.sejuk je nak dgr nasihat pun. hehehe.

p/s: all the things written above are definitely a reminder to myself too.

budak baek Best Blogger Tips said...

i too think that we should feel honored if someone is sincerely advising us because this kind of people are hard to find.

the most important thing is how we perceive the advice. if we want to constantly have negative thought thinking that they want to judge us, we can never improve ourselves. the key point is to always take things positively.

don't question people's credibility when they are trying to do good things to you. they might not be perfect but their advice can be very useful.

still, those who are advising should not be harsh. try to understand that the person u are advising may be someone who are sensitive and may easily get hurt.

gunalah ayat berbunga sikit kan. puji2 dulu ke. bagi dia tenang hati sikit.sejuk je nak dgr nasihat pun. hehehe.

p/s: all the things written above are definitely a reminder to myself too.

Umar Best Blogger Tips said...

yes yes yes! pendapat masing2 pun lain2.. so do judging. even jury pun tak agree with one another! ;) hence, i take everything in a positive way!

eton Best Blogger Tips said...

geram jgk klu ade org x dgr nasihat ni kan.. huhuhu..

Edy Fee Best Blogger Tips said...

siapalah jd modelnye tu.eheh stail.hehehe judge sesuka hati yang tak best tu

Rizal Sadiman Best Blogger Tips said...

@NARUMI ISOZAKI Jawapan terbaik.

Suka sangat ttg menjadi org tengah tu :)

Rizal Sadiman Best Blogger Tips said...

@ieda InsyaAllah.. sma2 la kita ye :)

Rizal Sadiman Best Blogger Tips said...

@- zuriey - Perhaps..

Mungkin kadang2 kita tak boleh terima nasihat sbb kita lemah?

Rizal Sadiman Best Blogger Tips said...

@NIZAMGive and take. sure..

Mesti la kena rasional kalau tak mmg nk kena sepak je haha

Rizal Sadiman Best Blogger Tips said...

@R.T.W ehhe..

yeah, ive realized.. I dont really go for school of hard knocks hehe..

It lil bit scary

Rizal Sadiman Best Blogger Tips said...

@fieda.aziz Yup..nobody is perfect.
Kalaus emua org sempurna, mmg aman dunia kan..? takde gaduh2 hehe

Slam ramadhan!

Rizal Sadiman Best Blogger Tips said...

@zacky786 Thanks.

Experience it before?

Rizal Sadiman Best Blogger Tips said...

@budak baek Thanks ya..

That's my problem. It cant really alter flowery words huhu..

I say when crosses my mind too easily

Rizal Sadiman Best Blogger Tips said...

@budak baek Eh nak komen lg? hehe

Rizal Sadiman Best Blogger Tips said...

@Umar Thats great.

Yeah...we really need to take things positively.

Betull! Judges also do not agree with one anothr. Just see what happens on Amrican Idol hhee

Rizal Sadiman Best Blogger Tips said...

@eton Hehe.. agak la..tp nak buat mcm mana..

Kadang2 kan, nasihat yg kita kasi kat org tu g paling susah kita nk ikut hehe..betul tak eton?

Rizal Sadiman Best Blogger Tips said...

@Edy Fee yeah its me hehe.. and my friend Precintha hehe

Betul!

Rina AVAIL a.k.a Cik Betty Best Blogger Tips said...

tula org kata..jgn pandang sape bg nasihat tp pandang apa yg dia nasihatkan

tp kan kita biasanya lebih mudah terima nasihat dr org yg kita respek :D

eqbalzack Best Blogger Tips said...

perghhh...abg eq sungguh2 berminat dengan jacket adidas tu.
**komen lari tajuk...hehe

Rizal Sadiman Best Blogger Tips said...

@Rina AVAIL a.k.a Cik Betty Betul2..

Kita lebih sng dgr nasihat drpd org yg kita respect

Rizal Sadiman Best Blogger Tips said...

@eqbalzack Hehe really?

Itu abg Rizal yg belikn . . .

Yousof Best Blogger Tips said...

Kita patut bersyukur ada orang nak nasihat, tu tandanya diaorang ambil berat pasal kita..


Nasihat benda baik² tak bermakna nak tunjuk diri kita baik tapi sama² usaha untuk jadi lebih baik ;)

Warna Warni Kehidupan Best Blogger Tips said...

jawapan.. lu apahal nak nasihat2 kan gua.. sambil pandang org atas bawah.. hurm...

Rizal Sadiman Best Blogger Tips said...

@Yousof Setuju!
Kena la terima nasihat dgn fikiran terbuka kan?

Rizal Sadiman Best Blogger Tips said...

@Warna Warni Kehidupan SUngguh sakit hati dgr alasan tu! haha

Anonymous Best Blogger Tips said...

@Rina AVAIL a.k.a Cik Betty Setuju..kita lebih sng dgr nasiht dr org yg kita respek

Rizal Sadiman Best Blogger Tips said...

@Anonymous Terima kasih!